okay, thankyoy so much, will do that, thank you so much for the fast replies.

Dear @slime ,

you can subsequently refuse to accept the parcel if someone else has accepted it for you. This works as described by @Vilureef . You go to a post office and can indicate there that you want to refuse to accept the parcel, then the postal worker takes the parcel and sends it back to the sender.

Kind regards,

Andrea